How to Create Attraction in Women
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Date: Wed, 11 Mar 2009 Time: 10:41 AM
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As you heard it in the seduction community, "Attraction Isn't a Choice." Let me rephrase that in a different way, Attraction Isn't a Choice for women, but it is a choice for men.
You see when you create attraction in a woman she doesn't think about it at a conscious level she feels it at an emotional and unconscious level. In order to create this attraction in women you have to be attractive as a man and when I say that, you have to work on yourself continuously on being the man women want.
Okay so how do you become this attractive man? These are what you should be focusing on that will naturally attract women.
BE THE MAN - I know it sounds a bit cliché but it's important that you focus on being. Women are naturally attracted to men who have their life together. Think about this for a moment, what if all men were to communicate like women, showing their emotions and making them bare before them. Not only you would be like a friend to her, you would be a man who doesn't have his life in order. She can't see you as man who is stable in his ways. There is no rock she can lean on. When you're with a woman you have to be able to display this sort of unaffected behavior to the world around you. Nothing fazes you. It's an attractive trait to have because most women don't have that kind of behavior that you should naturally have to begin with. Don't be like "chicken little," oh no the sky is falling! She would be uneasy around you because there is no stability.
BE AN ALPHA MAN OF SOCIAL STATUS - You don't have to have much money to begin with you just have to behave in a way that tells her at a unconscious level that you're an alpha male. You don't accept 2nd class behavior from anyone, you don't try to impress her or get approval from her, you're not in awe of her beauty, you tease and make fun of her all the time, you could care less or give a rats ass about being socially acceptable. I used to behave like this in high school and couldn't figure out why a lot of the girls were attracted to me since I wasn't the best looking guy in school. That's something I've learned at a young age. At this time I've taken what worked and still apply it to this day with a much better focus on what I want.
CHALLENGE HER - Have you ever seen when you were in the playground as a kid in elementary school, you used to see you're friends being chased? I used to show a girl I was interested in her by doing something crazy to her like putting a grasshopper I caught in the grass in front of her face and letting it go. She would then scream and start chasing me around the playground. What does this have to do with attraction? Well if you bring that to real time today but leave the childishness behind, it still works! You do this by being a tease and by flirting in a way that challenges her. She knows you're interested but you also show her that you can go about you're business without being consumed by her. This creates not only a challenge but it creates that emotion in her. Which brings me to my next point; you have to create a flirtatious environment.
FLIRTING / PLAYFULNESS - Just like the grasshopper story, I used to create attraction in a girl I liked when I was a kid. When you play with her and you're comfortable playing with her you create attraction and excitement in her. Her emotions are at a high. If you're too serious not only she will think you're boring, she will not want to continue the dialogue or interaction with you. Why would she want to? There is no need for her because she's an emotional creature and she wants to feel the emotions whether it's good or bad. Once the emotion is sparked there is no choice in the attraction for her. She can't feel anything but attraction for you.
MAKE YOU'RE SEXUAL INTENT KNOWN - If you don't do this she will slot you into the friend zone so fast you wouldn't know what hit you. The friend zone is where most guys get into because they want to be careful with not offending a woman in a sexual way. Hey guys! I'm not saying to grope women or be an aggressor. You want to be assertive not aggressive. You have to be able to show sexual intent with her in subtle ways such through your eye contact, voice tone, body language, proximity, escalation and using sexual expressions that tell her that you're a man and you're more than just a friend, you're a man who is a sexual being, just like her. If you focus on not offending her and make those mistakes in the beginning, you will definitely be in the friend zone. However, if your focus on being a sexual being who is expressive, she will be turned on by that energy you give out and she would want to express that sexual being in return.
GIVE HER A ROLLER COASTER RIDE BY USING PUSH / PULL - Push / Pull is a way to swing her emotions from left to right, sometimes to a point where she's comfortable to be around you to like she's losing you're attention and then becomes uncomfortable so that she chases you. It's a way for her having to work for you. You can do this in a verbal or non-verbal way.
USING HUMOR - Humor and laughter is universal. It happens in all social interactions from different races and ethnic groups. When you use humor you trigger addicting chemicals in the body. Everyone loves laughing but not everyone practices it daily. When you use humor when it comes to attracting women you will trigger emotions in her that makes her want it even more.
USING BODY LANGUAGE - Body language is also universal. It happens all the time; most people don't realize what they do with their subtle cues of body language. When you use it in the right way you become powerful in a way that attracts women to you. When you want to portray power and dominance your body language should be open such as a wide stance, feet spaced out shoulder width apart, and you should be taking lots of room and space.
USING THE ENVIRONMENT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE - You can use your surroundings around you. They are everywhere. If you want something to happen in a romantic way then you would have to set the mood, and to set the mood you would have to be in an environment that creates that mood. An example would be a place with a view, lounge chairs by the pool, or just being at the beach hearing the ocean wave crash on the shore. You just have to be creative in ways that sets emotions in her. She doesn't want a guy who is going to take her to the movies, that's average and that's boring, that's what every guy before has done. So don't do that.
LEAD WOMEN - People in general secretly want to be led. Most people are followers. They're not many guys out there who will take that lead. So when a woman comes across a man that does not know how to lead the interaction or even the relationship, it diminishes, she then wonders if the guy is really a man. When you go on dates women expect you to lead. Leadership is a skill that is learned and shaped by behavior.
So there you go, those are the guidelines on how to attract women!
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About the Author
Rey L. has been a natural with women at a very young age. Although he was labeled "The Jerk" or "Bad Boy" that little girls and women love because of his dominant personality, he admits that, "it's not enough" and "it doesn't mean you're a ladies man." He now teaches men how to become a man of true power, irresistible attractiveness, and have the desirability and authenticity that every beautiful women crave for. His web site, http://www.eliteseductionsecrets.com provides a wealth of informative articles and resources on everything you'll ever need to know about creating attraction and having a lifestyle with women and dating.
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